Saturday, July 10, 2010

Summer Fun

I love the fact that Sam’s job is so much like mine now that we can commiserate together. He was telling me how frustrating it is that he can discharge 11 patients in a day and they will get the same amount or more back in less than 24 hours. I told him it is the same with meals and clean up here. I keep thinking of the “Incredibles” opening remarks, “How many times do I have to save the world? Why can’t it just stay saved for a while? I feel like the maid. I just cleaned up in here!” He says it is difficult also because he is used to having more time to spend with the patients, but there are more patients on trauma and less time to spend with them. I feel the same way with the children. There are so many things that I could or should be doing with each of the children that it will be amazing if they will all actually learn to tie their shoes, toilet independently, and change their underwear at least once a day. Recently we have been having “cooler that usual” temperatures. This means that the temperature dips down into the 70’s at night. (I actually saw 74) Woohoo! It has been great to get up and run before Sam leaves when it is almost refreshing outside. Scott loves being the leader. I recently heard him bequeathing Abigail with the higher sibling authority and responsibilities as he took a brief leave from the house to do something really important like take the garbage out or something. It sounded like this, “Abigail, while I am gone you are in charge because you will be the oldest. So you have to look out for your younger brother and sister. You’re responsible for them, Okay!” It went on for quite a while, but this was the general idea and I was smiling as I listened. I have found something that I have in common with Abigail. She really, really, really doesn’t like to clean up her room. She likes to keep it clean as she goes. Unfortunately she lives with a tornado named Allison. The clock is ticking for these sisters to share a room I think. Allison, is Allison. She doesn’t understand why I am not laughing when she shoves her finger into her watermelon to see how far the juices will squirt. She lives 75% of her time as Snow White and someone needs to convince her that she shouldn’t wear long sleeve shirts and pants and several layers of dress-ups when it is so hot. But her big accomplishment this week is swimming in the big pool with just her arm floaties. Yeah! For someone who started this summer terrified of the big pool, even with me holding her, this is great. Michael loves to parade around the house with clothes. He reminds me of a house elf from Harry Potter. He really thinks he can do anything everyone else is doing and luckily this includes sitting on my lap during story time and reading with us. Well if you have come this far in this letter I should thank you for reading it because there isn’t a lot to report, but we have been having a good time not doing much.

Black and White

I am so pleased with how these turned out. They are sitting on my shelf now and I don't think I will every go to a studio again.









Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Snow!


This past Saturday was wonderful. We woke up to snow and Alabama had a decicive victory over Florida to win the SEC conference. Yea!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Waiting for Fall


We finally got High school Musical and watched it with the children. I think Scott was very inspired by it. Today in Primary the chorister was taking turns with the Junior and Senior Primary. She turned to the Junior Primary and Scott rallied the children with, “Come on lets show her what we got!” Both he and Abigail could be heard over everyone else. Yesterday Sam and I began with a great outline and plan for the day. Sam had to go in and work in the morning and then he would come home. I was making Chicken Parmesan with Scott in the kitchen and Abigail was practicing her piano with Allison when I heard her fall off the bench. She was really hurt. I spoke to Sam on the phone and I was impressed that he was able to correctly deduce that Abigail had a fractured, mildly displaced collarbone. I took her to Sam and he took her to the children’s ER for x-rays. I feel really bad for anyone who has to wait in an ER, but it was nice that they streamlined Sam and Abigail. It was a good thing too. Sam got paged while getting x-rays with Abigail (he was on-call) and called me to come get Abigail. He used the computers in the ER to view the CT scan on the patient he was called on and Abigail was pretty impressed with the “pictures”. Abigail came home with a sling and we just have to be really careful about not bumping or falling for a few weeks. I’m sending a picture of the compost I am trying to decompose aerobically in a garbage can. I found a video on the internet of how to do this. They demonstrate easily punching holes in a garbage can with a hammer and a nail in the video. So I got my garbage can, hammer and nails and started pounding away. Thirty minutes of pounding later I didn’t have much to show and Sam who had been trying to nap inside was not impressed. He came out, shook his head, and said there must be a better way. He reemerged with a hand drill and I was completely finished in probably less than ten minutes. I canned peaches and the children had dentist appointments this week. I was so amused by the dentist’s summary of the children’s reactions. Scott was so interested and involved in what was going on that it made the exam a bit challenging, but at least he was cooperative. Abigail showed immediate signs of distrust and skepticism which made x-rays and the exam difficult. Allison persistently asked them not to put holes in her and once she was satisfied she could trust them she was putty in their hands. I could have written the dentist’s synopsis beforehand so it was rather amusing to listen to. I wish you could see Abigail and Allison play. They are superb examples of cooperative play. They practice musical note flashcards together. Abigail shows Allison a card and says, “what’s this?…..(quietly) it’s A.” Allison, “A!” Abigail, “YES Allison! Good job”. Allison, “I did it all by myself!” Whatever success Allison achieves in this life will have to be in part ascribed to Abigail’s diligent tutoring. She loves to drill Allison in counting, letters, music, stories. It is so constructive I’m amazed. I taught my last gospel doctrine lesson today because I was sustained as the Primary pianist and secretary. I think they will be glad to be rid of me in GD. I would start class by inviting everyone to fill all the seats in the center and front being sure to leave no seats empty between people. It was something Elder Eyring would do while I was at BYU and I figured that if it was good for him it was a good thing for me to do, but I didn’t get the feeling that many people were very keen on this approach.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Beautiful Day


Sam and I went for a short walk in our neighborhood yesterday and it was actually pleasant to be outside. I mentioned this to Sam and he said, “Its horrible!” “What!” I don’t know what is wrong with him. “Sam, why are you contradicting me and being disagreeable. All I‘m doing is commenting on an obviously beautiful day.” Sam is not phased. “You don’t understand Verina. I don’t want nice weather on trauma weekend people go outside and do stupid things and then I have to fix them.” A short lecture on being optimistic and enjoying good things followed. Then a fifteen second pause. A fast vehicle was approaching. We call to Abigail on her bike to stay close to the side of the road. As if to prove Sam right (again) an ATV goes flying by with one unhelmeted teenager driving and three, THREE, more unhelmeted (of course) youth clinging to the speeding vehicle. I wanted to scream at them for their stupidity and of course for proving Sam right. That is not the kind of job insurance Sam needs.


Yesterday Allison in a tone that clearly showed she was impressed said, "Wow Mom your BIG!" Nothing like a two year old compliment.

Health Care Reform

I would love to have the time and ability to create an entire blog devoted to this subject because I really think that the mothers and women I have talked to about this are the ones who really have the answers. What is wrong with all the big wigs?! (Maybe their heads are too big) My sister concisely solves most of the major health care problems our country has in a simple four step approach that would cost almost (at least comparatively) nothing and solve a host of problems with the health care crisis.

Step One: All doctor visits cost $100 - People have lost touch with how much health care really costs. If you never have to pay something (insurance covers everything) it becomes a crutch. Insurance could reimburse people, but this should help people look at going to the doctor realistically.

Step Two: All doctors must post prices for basic fees - When no one knows how much something is it is going to be meddled with. Isn't this how mechanics and other industries work? Why not health care. It will also tell you a little about the doctor you are going to. You get what you pay for.

Step Three: Cap litigation rewards for subjective losses - Obvious. I wonder exactly how much of a doctor's fee is to cover his cost of malpractice insurance. We have already seen and heard of places where people can't get OBs because they can no longer afford malpractice insurance.

Step Four: Get rid of paper! - a short hospital stay results in volumes of repetitive notes and charting that no one is going to look at (except a lawyer years after the fact for litigation purposes). Couldn't it be electronically organized in a better way so that the multiple doctors treating a patient can review it easier, thus cutting down on medical mistakes and the cost of producing and filing and transporting paper.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

School

Scott's first day of 2nd grade

Abigail's first day of kindergarten. She was excited to wear her butterfly shirt and take her butterfly lunch box.

Abigail showing Dad what she is doing on the piano.


Abigail loves holding and playing with baby Michael.